Safety Lessons for NY Explorers

As part of this blog project, I have spent quite a bit of time wandering the Bronx. Although the Bronx has a connotation of being a kind of dangerous place to visit, I have found the Bronx to be one of the most enjoyable parts of New York City. Unlike the other boroughs, the Bronx has a much more laid back and communal feel and unsurprisingly is not overrun by tourists. I would honestly advise everyone to spend a bit of time in the Bronx, but regardless of how safe you may feel, it is best to be smart and aware when traveling through New York City. This blog post will discuss some advice I have learned from self defense classes and classes I have taken for my job as a security guard.

1- Don't travel alone

Ok, this is kind of an obvious rule and I admit that I travel alone quite a bit, but really don't travel alone in the Bronx. There's really a safety in numbers and attackers look for people that look vulnerable. If you ever travel alone, have a planned destination, let someone know the area you will be visiting, and NEVER travel alone at night.

2- Be aware

This is yet another obvious pointer, but nothing looks more vulnerable than being distracted. Even if you are playing on your phone while waiting in the subway, try to be conscious of who is around you and what they are doing. Most problems can be altogether avoided by just a little bit of consciousness. If someone is watching you or is looking at you more than usual, keep an eye on that person. If someone is walking really close behind you or is making you feel uncomfortable in anyway, do something to change your situation. You can duck into a busy store or move closer to other people. Staying aware is the key to knowing of potential problems.

3- Realize that you are in control

The key to not being vulnerable is being in control of your situation. It's the little things that make the biggest difference with your safety. Be confident and even if you are afraid, don't show it. Most importantly, if there is someone or something that feels wrong, then change what you can in your situation. Go into a busy store, cross onto the other side of the street, or move seats on the subway. If done discreetly and confidently, you can avoid most confrontations and feel good about your safety.

I hope you enjoy your adventures in New York and that you navigate the streets carefully and confidently. Good luck with your travels and remember to have fun! (And, don't forget your pepper spray ;) ).